Guide

Everything you need to find your way around. Search, or pick what you want to do.

How it works

  1. Guys near youProfiles around you, closest first: who’s online, who’s up for it right now.
  2. Chat and call, in privateA private chat with each mate, audio or video calls, group chats.
  3. Meet up for realHangouts hosted by members, and local venues with their reviews.
  4. You stay in controlYou choose who sees your photos, block in one tap, and the site team reads every report.

The site at a glance

  1. 1 · The bar

    The four sections

    The whole site fits into four sections. The one you’re in lights up and shows its sub-sections.

    • Feed: posts, For you or My circle
    • Guys: Profiles, Live, Ads
    • Going out: Hangouts, Places
    • Community: Crews, Forums, Exhib
  2. 2 · Search

    Find what you’re looking for

    Type what you’re looking for: a username, a crew, a place…

  3. 3 · Create

    Share something

    One button for everything you post:

    • a post in the feed, a photo in your album
    • an ad, a hangout, a live
    • a voice room, a crew
  4. 4 · Messages and notifications

    What’s waiting for you

    The red badges count what you haven’t seen yet. On a computer, a chat opens as a window at the bottom of the screen, so you can keep browsing.

  5. 5 · You

    Up for it, and your account

    The “Up for it” switch tells others you’re available, and for what: chat, voice, cam or meeting up. Your avatar opens your account: profile, mates, settings, look.

  6. 6 · The page

    What’s in the section

    Here, the Feed: lives happening now, a box to share a post, then the posts. Under each post: like, comment.

  7. 7 · The column

    What’s happening around you

    What’s going on near you right now, and shortcuts to the rest of the site.

  1. 1 · At the top

    Create, notifications, your account

    The “+” to share, the bell for notifications, your avatar: profile, settings, look, and “Say I’m up for it”.

  2. 2 · Sub-sections

    The top strip

    The sub-sections of the section you’re in. In the Feed: For you and My circle.

  3. 3 · The page

    The content

    Scroll: lives happening now, then the posts.

  4. 4 · Tabs

    The four sections

    Feed, Guys, Going out, Community: always under your thumb.

  5. 5 · Messages

    The bubble

    Your chats, one tap away. The number counts unread messages.

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Meet guys near meFind local guys and start chatting.5 steps · 1 minChat, call, start a groupPrivate chats, calls and group chats.5 steps · 1 minGo live or watch a liveMates streaming now, replays, your own live.4 steps · 1 minGoing out: hangouts and placesMeet up for real, find the good spots.5 steps · 1 minJoin or start a crewBands of mates, by city, practice or affinity.4 steps · 1 minPolish my profilePhoto, cover, about, guestbook, confidences.5 steps · 1 minChange the look12 looks for the site, light or dark.4 steps · 1 minStay safe: block, report, my photosStay in control of who sees you and talks to you.4 steps · 1 min

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Meet guys near me

Find local guys and start chatting.

  1. Open Guys

    In the bar, Guys. The Nearest sort shows guys who are online and active first, from closest to farthest.

  2. Pick your area

    The Your city · 25 km pill at the top opens “Where to look”: change city or distance.

  3. Filter

    All, Online, Up for it, then Filters: age, practices, what he’s looking for, lifestyle (including languages spoken)…

  4. Open a profile

    His album, guestbook, confidences, and his dick code if he has one.

  5. Message him

    The message button on his card or on his profile.

Say you’re up for it: you show up in “Up for it now” at the top of Guys. You choose what for: chat, voice, cam or meeting up.

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Chat, call, start a group

Private chats, calls and group chats.

  1. Open Messages

    The icon at the top, or the bubble on a phone. On a computer, a chat also opens as a window at the bottom of the screen, so you can keep browsing.

  2. Sort your chats

    Unread Online My circle and Up for it, above the list. They combine.

  3. Send a photo or video

    The next to the input: Photo or video, My dick code, Ask for his, and an invite to your hangout when you have one coming up.

  4. Call

    Call at the top of the chat, then Voice call or Video call. The button turns green when he’s online. On first contact, he has to reply to you first.

  5. Make it a group

    In a chat, ⋯ › Add someone, or New group at the top of Messages: up to 8 people.

Your crews have their own chat in Messages too, under “Your crews”.

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Go live or watch a live

Mates streaming now, replays, your own live.

  1. Watch

    Guys › Live: the Live now, Replays and Scheduled tabs.

  2. Join in

    Write a comment during the live.

  3. Start yours

    Create › Go live, or from the Live page.

  4. Get ready

    A title, a few words, then Who can join?. See my private preview shows you your picture: nothing is broadcast until you start.

Not in the mood for cam? Create › open a voice room to talk with several mates.

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Going out: hangouts and places

Meet up for real, find the good spots.

  1. Find a hangout

    Going out › Hangouts: as a List, on the Map or in the Calendar.

  2. Ask to come

    I want to join on its page. The address only goes to the guys who get in: before that, you only see a circle of about 1 km on the map.

  3. Host your own

    Create › Host your hangout. Choose I choose who comes or First come, first served, and the number of spots, not counting you.

  4. Options

    More options: ask for a short note or a photo with each request, keep it to certified profiles, ask guests to confirm on the day.

  5. Places

    Going out › Places: saunas, clubs, cruising spots. On a place’s page, I’m going, and the Reviews tab to leave yours.

A hangout you’re going to can be shared in a chat, from the next to the input.

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Join or start a crew

Bands of mates, by city, practice or affinity.

  1. Find your crew

    Community › Crews: by city, practice or affinity.

  2. Get in

    Join an open crew straight away; for a crew by request, ask to join: its hosts accept each mate.

  3. Talk with the band

    The Crew chat is in your Messages, under “Your crews”; the crew also has its own feed. Chat messages are deleted after 30 days.

  4. Start yours

    Create › Start a crew, open or by request. Make host to get some help running it.

A crew can set up a meetup: in its chat, ⋯ › Share a hangout.

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Polish my profile

Photo, cover, about, guestbook, confidences.

  1. Open the editor

    Your avatar › View my profile › Edit my profile: the essentials, photos, about you, lifestyle, what you’re into…

  2. Photo and cover

    In your album, set a photo as your profile picture; on your profile, Change cover.

  3. Introduce yourself

    A few words, what you’re looking for, your Languages spoken (under lifestyle).

  4. Your dick code

    Don’t want to show your face? The dick code is a drawing of you, without a face, instead of a photo. You choose who sees your dick; others see you in boxers.

  5. Guestbook and confidences

    Members leave you a note in your Guestbook: nothing shows until you display it. In Confidences, they ask you a question: only your answer goes public, never who asked.

In Settings, you choose who can write in your guestbook and who can ask you a question.

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Change the look

12 looks for the site, light or dark.

  1. Open the look

    Your avatar › the look option of your account menu.

  2. Try it

    Tap a look: the site changes right away, nothing is kept until you choose.

  3. Light or dark

    Light, Dark or Automatic, which follows your device.

  4. Keep it

    Keep this style, or cancel. Your choice follows you on all your devices, and only you see it.

The look only changes the style: the sections stay in the same place.

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Stay safe: block, report, my photos

Stay in control of who sees you and talks to you.

  1. Block

    On his profile or in the chat, ⋯ › Block: he can no longer see you or write to you, and you no longer see him. He isn’t told.

  2. Report

    Report in a profile’s ⋯ menu or on a message; on a photo or video, from its actions menu. The site team and the moderation committee read every report.

  3. Choose who sees your photos

    Each photo has its own visibility: Whole community, My mates, Private (blurred, you choose who sees it) or Only me.

  4. Set your visibility

    Settings, settings tab: visible to your mates only, discreet visits… Your blocked members are there too, to unblock them.

A message makes you uncomfortable? Report it right in the chat, no need to reply.

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